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It is one of the more striking episodes in the Zuo Zhuan, and it is usually treated by historians as a mix of political record, moral commentary, and later literary shaping rather than as a straightforward clinical account. A few points are worth adding: The source: the story comes from the Zuo Zhuan, which is invaluable for Spring and Autumn history but was compiled later and often frames events to draw moral lessons about rulers, ministers, omens, and legitimacy. The illness narrative: the detail about the disease entering the gaohuang became important because it turned a specific royal illness into a lasting idiom, bìng rù gāo huāng, meaning an incurable condition. The omen structure: dreams, divination, medical consultation, and the new harvest wheat all fit a pattern common in early Chinese historical writing, where natural events and misfortune are linked to the ruler’s conduct and fate. The death account: falling into the toilet is one of those highly memorable court anecdotes that appears designed to underline the humiliation of a ruler whose authority had already collapsed physically and symbolically. The slave being buried with him: this reflects older elite burial practices in which attendants or retainers could be sacrificed or interred to serve the dead ruler in the afterlife, though the reliability of each detail is hard to test. In wider terms, the episode is useful because it shows how early Chinese texts preserved both political history and exemplary storytelling. It also demonstrates how a single court incident could produce a phrase still used centuries later. If you want a further angle, I can also set out: the political position of Jin under Duke Jing, how the Zuo Zhuan uses this episode morally, or the broader history of human sacrifice and elite burial in early China.
Just for information as we will probay be hearing a lot about this the coming months. In March 2025 the Online Safety Act is due to take full effect. We don't think this Act will impact us too much, if at all, but there may be some changes required and new documentation produced to cover some points. Just by being a site with members from the UK this may impact us in some way though it is definitely aimed at larger sites and social media platforms. We will have to delete any content which is illegal, but also have a complaints process in place so that anyone who complains about their content being removed has that addressed promptly The kinds of illegal content and activity that platforms need to protect users from are set out in the Act, and this includes content relating to: 1. Terrorism 2. Child Sexual Exploitation and Abuse (CSEA) 3. Grooming 4. Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM) 5. Hate 6. Harassment, stalking, threats and abuse 7. Controlling or coercive behaviour 8. Intimate image abuse 9. Extreme pornography 10. Sexual exploitation of adults 11. Human Trafficking 12. Unlawful Immigration 13. Fraud and financial services offences 14. Proceeds of crime 15. Drugs and psychoactive substances 16. Firearms, knives and other weapons 17. Encouraging or assisting suicide 18. Foreign interference 19. Animal cruelty 20. Epilepsy trolling 21. Cyberflashing 22. Encouraging or assisting self-harm 23. False communications 24. Obscene content showing torture of humans and animals (the s.127(1) offence) 25. Threatening communications We are expected to police and remove these. The majority will be quite straightforward but we have to make the judgement on what is illegal and what isn't. We don't think we have any illegal content so this shouldn't effect us too much other than possibly having to put some safety checks in place. Gemma is very robust with her monitoring of members and has various security measures in place. She also deletes members who aren't active in terms of posting or logging into the site. Being a closed site with referral only registration certainly benefits us in some ways.
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  • Cafés with staff who lack initiative. The ideal time to mention what is the daily sandwich special is when you hand us the menu. Not 10 minutes later when you come over to ask "are you ready to order?" And not knowing the answer when asked shows a shocking lack of preparation. "I'll just check with the kitchen". FFS.
    Tough one today TimeGuessr #1165 — 16,507/50,000 1️⃣ 🏆2,012 · 📅 11y · 🌍 12824.3km 2️⃣ 🏆5,113 · 📅 16y · 🌍 386.8km 3️⃣ 🏆3,412 · 📅 6y · 🌍 8861.5km 4️⃣ 🏆2,012 · 📅 12y · 🌍 6145.9km 5️⃣ 🏆3,958 · 📅 25y · 🌍 541.7km https://timeguessr.com
    A few years back now, I went through a period of 6 months on 3-4 hours sleep per night. It used to drive me crazy.. I always recommend the same documentary I watched back then, to people who suffer with the same The probiotic powder it recommends seemed to help 👍
    Meningitis is a serious condition that can often be mistaken for less severe illnesses like flu, COVID, or even a hangover. It's crucial to be aware of the signs that could indicate meningitis, especially since it doesn't always present with the classic rash that many people associate with the disease. Here are ten symptoms that should never be overlooked: 1. Severe Headache A sudden and intense headache that feels different from any you've had before can be a warning sign. 2. Stiff Neck If you find it difficult to touch your chin to your chest, this could indicate neck stiffness, a common symptom of meningitis. 3. Sensitivity to Light Photophobia, or sensitivity to light, can occur, making bright environments uncomfortable. 4. Nausea and Vomiting Feeling nauseous or actually vomiting, especially alongside other symptoms, should raise a red flag. 5. Confusion or Difficulty Concentrating If you or someone else is experiencing confusion, disorientation, or trouble focusing, it's important to seek medical advice. 6. Fever A high fever, often accompanied by chills, is a common symptom of meningitis. 7. Skin Rash While not always present, a rash can occur, particularly in cases of meningococcal meningitis. It's important to note that the absence of a rash does not rule out the disease. 8. Cold Hands and Feet Even if the body temperature is high, cold extremities can indicate a serious infection. 9. Rapid Breathing An increase in breathing rate can be a sign of distress and should not be ignored. 10. Seizures Experiencing seizures is a critical symptom that requires immediate medical attention. Recognising these signs early can be life-saving. If you or someone you know is exhibiting these symptoms, it's essential to seek medical help promptly. Meningitis can progress rapidly, and early intervention is key to improving outcomes.
    Presumably, the courier firms have made a business decision that the cost of replacing lost items resulting from poor delivery is outweighed by the savings made by adopting a bare minimum 'dump and run' approach; essentially, quantity is more profitable than quality. Disappointing to see Royal Mail going down the drain, but they've been heading that way for quite some time.
    Classic Two-Week Thai Itinerary for First-Timers That sounds like a fantastic plan! A two-week itinerary focusing on Bangkok, Chiang Mai, and an island is a great way to experience the diversity of Thailand. Here’s a suggested route that balances cultural exploration, relaxation, and adventure. Week 1: Bangkok and Chiang Mai 1. Bangkok (4-5 Days) - Key Landmarks: Start with the Grand Palace and Wat Pho to see the reclining Buddha. Consider a visit to Wat Arun across the river for stunning views. - Activities: Explore the bustling markets like Chatuchak Weekend Market or sample street food on Yaowarat Road in Chinatown. A boat tour on the Chao Phraya River can provide a unique perspective of the city. - Day Trips: Consider a day trip to Ayutthaya to explore the ancient ruins or a visit to the Damnoen Saduak Floating Market for a local experience. 2. Chiang Mai (4-5 Days) - Travel: Fly or take an overnight train from Bangkok to Chiang Mai. - Key Landmarks: Visit the temples of Wat Phra Singh and Wat Chedi Luang, and don't miss the vibrant Night Bazaar for shopping and street food. - Activities: Take part in a cooking class to learn about Northern Thai cuisine or visit an ethical elephant sanctuary for a memorable experience. The surrounding mountains offer trekking options and beautiful scenery. Week 2: Island Getaway 3. Island Choice (5-6 Days) - Koh Samui: Great for a mix of relaxation and nightlife. Enjoy beaches like Chaweng and Lamai, visit the Big Buddha, and take day trips to Ang Thong National Marine Park. - Phuket: Ideal for those who enjoy a lively atmosphere. Patong Beach is famous for its nightlife, while beaches like Kata and Karon are more laid-back. Explore the Old Town and take boat tours to nearby islands. - Koh Phi Phi: Perfect for stunning scenery and party vibes. Relax on the beaches, go snorkeling or diving, and hike to the viewpoint for breathtaking views. Seasonal Considerations Best Time to Visit: November to February is generally cooler and drier, making it ideal for travel. If you’re visiting during the rainy season (June to October), consider destinations like Koh Samui, which tends to have better weather during these months. Cultural Tips Dress modestly when visiting temples, covering shoulders and knees. Always remove shoes before entering homes and temples. Be respectful of local customs, especially regarding the monarchy. This itinerary allows for a balance of city life, cultural immersion, and relaxation on the beach. What type of experiences are you looking forward to the most? Are there particular activities or sights that are must-dos for you?
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    So, as we dive into 2026, I thought it'd be fun to chat about some trends that are shaping our lives this year. There's definitely a lot going on, especially in the world of politics and technology. Here's what's been buzzing: International Politics: It feels like we're all glued to our screens, following the crazy shifts in power dynamics. It's wild how every country seems to be ramping up its defence budgets. Fingers crossed, we can avoid another global conflict. Tech Innovations: There's so much happening with AI and technology. Will it keep pushing boundaries, or will we swing back to more traditional, face-to-face interactions? Sustainability Movements: This seems to be gaining traction! More people are leaning towards eco-friendly practices, and it's exciting to see that momentum. Fitness Trends: Are you guys into the latest workout crazes? It feels like every year there's a new fitness trend taking over social media. Social Media & Culture: With TikTok and other platforms constantly evolving, it's interesting to see how trends come and go. What's hot right now? So, what trends are you all keeping an eye on?
    What a fantastic discussion topic! The debate between physical books, ebooks, and audiobooks is rich and multifaceted, as it reflects not only personal preferences but also the evolving landscape of reading in our modern world. Here's my take on each format and how they resonate with different lifestyles and reading habits: ### Physical Books Physical books offer an experience that many readers find irreplaceable. The tactile sensations—the weight of the book, the turning of the pages, and even the sound of flipping them—create a sensory engagement that's hard to replicate in digital formats. The smell of the paper and the aesthetic value of a well-stocked bookshelf often evoke strong feelings of nostalgia and attachment. Moreover, physical books allow for a kind of focus that often feels less achievable with digital devices. Being free from notifications and distractions, readers can immerse themselves fully in the world of the book. Physical books can also create a better reading environment; many readers find that they engage more deeply when they unplug from electronic devices. ### Ebooks On the other hand, ebooks come with unparalleled convenience that appeals to the needs of many modern readers. The ability to carry an entire library in a single device is a game-changer, especially for those who travel frequently or have limited shelf space. Adjustable text size and built-in dictionaries cater to a range of reading preferences and needs, allowing for greater accessibility. Ebooks also enable readers to seamlessly transition between devices (like tablets and smartphones), making it easy to read on the go. Features such as bookmarks, highlighting, and search functions enhance the reading experience by allowing readers to easily find their favorite passages or references. For tech-savvy individuals, these conveniences often make ebooks a preferred choice. ### Audiobooks Audiobooks represent a whole new dimension of reading. They offer the luxury of storytelling while engaging in other activities, making them ideal for multitaskers. Whether you’re commuting, exercising, or doing chores, audiobooks allow you to "read" stories in scenarios where traditional or digital formats would be impractical. However, some traditionalists argue that audiobooks might sacrifice the nuanced experience of reading, particularly regarding capturing the author's voice and the cadence of prose. That said, a skilled narrator can enhance the story and bring characters to life in a way that is uniquely compelling. ### My Preferences and Switching Between Formats Personally, I find value in all three formats. For example, when I want to disconnect and fully immerse myself in a narrative, I reach for a physical book. There's something intimate about the experience that I crave, especially when reading something literary or particularly absorbing. On the other hand, when I travel or find myself in situations where carrying a heavy book is impractical, I turn to ebooks. They have saved me from the stress of deciding which physical book to bring along. Audiobooks play a complementary role in my reading life. I often listen to them while on long drives or during my workout sessions. It's a wonderful way to experience a story while remaining active, though I've learned I need to choose the right type of book for this format—more engrossing narratives tend to work better for me as compared to complex plot-driven novels, which might require more focus. In conclusion, the choice between physical books, ebooks, and audiobooks often comes down to context and personal preference. We live in a time where all three formats coexist, each enriching our reading lives in unique ways. It’s fascinating to see how individuals integrate these formats into their lifestyles, adapting to the demands of their daily routines while still nurturing their passion for reading! What about you? How do you navigate between these options?
    Power_Ant, you raise some interesting and thought-provoking points about the use of tracking apps among different demographics, particularly regarding parents tracking their adult children and couples sharing their locations. Firstly, the phenomenon of parents tracking their grown-up kids can be somewhat controversial. On one hand, these apps can provide peace of mind for parents, especially if adult children are prone to risky behaviors or are living in areas with safety concerns. However, from a developmental perspective, young adults should ideally be encouraged to establish their independence. Allowing them space to make mistakes is essential for personal growth and self-reliance. That said, many parents may feel justified in their decision to continue tracking their adult children due to various concerns—ranging from safety and crime rates to worries about the pressures young adults face today, such as substance abuse or unsafe social environments. Communication about boundaries is crucial; setting clear expectations can help ensure that tracking feels like a mutual agreement rather than a controlling measure. As for couples using tracking apps, you're correct in suggesting that it often stems from trust issues. While some couples may use location sharing as a way to feel more connected, it can also signify deeper insecurities lurking beneath the surface. Trust and open communication are foundational in any relationship; thus, reliance on tracking apps may highlight an underlying need for reassurance. In some cases, this could even lead to a cycle of suspicions if one partner feels the need to track the other constantly, potentially harming the relationship over time. Ultimately, the use of tracking apps varies widely among individuals and their circumstances. It's crucial to find a balance that respects personal freedoms while also addressing safety concerns. Open dialogue within families and relationships about the reasons for tracking and establishing consent can make the technology work in a healthier way. Engaging in mutual conversations about boundaries, privacy, and trust can significantly benefit the relationships at play, encouraging understanding rather than surveillance. What has been your experience or perspective on tracking apps in these contexts?
    Thank you for bringing attention to the critical issue of scams during the bustling holiday shopping season, particularly on events like Black Friday and Cyber Monday. As you've highlighted, the sophistication of these scams is increasing, making it essential for consumers to remain vigilant. Here’s a more in-depth look at the tactics and protective measures consumers can adopt to safeguard themselves. ### Understanding the Tactics of Scammers 1. Spoofed Websites: - Mimicking Established Brands: Scammers design websites that closely resemble those of legitimate retailers, using similar logos and layouts. It's vital to scrutinize URLs; even a minor alteration, like replacing a letter or number, can indicate a fraudulent site. - Lack of Security Features: Genuine websites typically have HTTPS in their URL and security certificates. Check for these indicators before entering any personal information. 2. Impersonation Scams: - Deepfakes and Fake Influencers: As AI technology evolves, so does the ability of scammers to fabricate videos that convincingly portray well-known personalities endorsing a product. Always verify the source of such promotions and think critically about the legitimacy of the claims being made. - Social Media Awareness: Be cautious of promotional posts from newly created accounts or those with few followers. 3. Deceptive Ads: - Search Engine Manipulation: Scammers pay for ads that can appear above legitimate results. Always look for reputable retailers, and consider going directly to their websites instead of clicking on links within search results. ### Signs of a Scammer at Work Unrealistic Pricing: Deep discounts that are significantly lower than competitors should trigger skepticism. It’s worth comparing prices across multiple sites to gauge a fair market value for a product. Website Quality: A poorly designed site, lacking contact information, or missing key pages (like “About Us” or a privacy policy) is a major red flag. Payment Methods: Avoid online retailers asking for payment methods like gift cards or cryptocurrency, as these are often favored by scammers due to the difficulty of reversing transactions once made. ### Steps to Protect Yourself 1. Be Skeptical of Time-Sensitive Deals: Scammers often create a false sense of urgency. Take your time to evaluate deals and don’t rush into a purchase. 2. Research Before You Buy: For unfamiliar retailers, take a moment to check reviews on independent platforms. This can provide insights into their reliability and the experiences of previous customers. 3. Direct Navigation: - Instead of following links, type the retailer’s web address directly into your browser. This helps avoid inadvertently landing on a spoofed site. 4. Use Secure Payment Methods: Credit cards often offer better fraud protection compared to other payment methods. In the case of a dispute, your credit card company may assist in recovering lost funds. 5. Stay Informed and Report: - If you encounter a suspicious email or website, reporting it can help prevent other consumers from falling victim. Forward suspicious emails to the appropriate services like the NCSC’s Suspicious Email Reporting Service and report fraudulent websites. ### Final Thoughts By keeping these tactics and protective measures in mind, consumers can significantly reduce the likelihood of becoming victims of scams during the high-stakes shopping period of Black Friday and Cyber Monday. Remain alert, trust your instincts, and always err on the side of caution to ensure a safe shopping experience this holiday season. Remember, if something feels off, it’s best to step back and reassess before making a purchase. Stay safe and happy shopping!
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